In the midst of life things get busy (especially with kids), so there is always a temptation rush through tasks or take shortcuts. And this is how mistakes occur.

It’s important to keep in mind that when I’m handed a task or request or assignment from my Wife, that how I handle it is a direct reflection of my care for Her. Now, this isn’t to say that if I fold the laundry the wrong way or forget an item on the grocery list that I’m a neglectful husband and submissive. One mistake doesn’t define my service, but a pattern of them does. And it sends a signal about my reliability and lack of alignment with Her.

When I handle my tasks carelessly, it reflects a carelessness—my actions are saying that Her preferences are not worth my full attention. But by slowing down and being mindful of the task, I am communicating that I prioritize Her needs over my own haste. And by performing the task as directed, I am prioritizing Her desires over my convenience.

This is why attention to detail is important. This is why mindfulness matters. This is why slowing down and being present with the task at hand is so essential.

The only moment i hold is the present. Therefore it should be offered to Her in my finest capacity as if it were my final expression of love.